This week’s Ask Carolyn is all about lies and deceit. Our first reader is writing in about her cheating husband, and wants to know if a lie detector test will help her get justice and closure. Our second reader thought her daughter was at a Grasshoppers game with her father,…
Ask Carolyn
Cyberstalked by the Ex-Spouse
Carolyn WoodruffDear Carolyn: My ex-spouse is harassing me with emails and text messages. This ex is saying very mean, nasty things and calling me names. It just won’t stop. I hate to give up my cell phone number and my email address, as it would be quite complicated to change. I…
Keeping Up with Carolyn
Venn CrawfordThere’s not an uneventful day at Woodruff Family Law Group. Usually, surprises come in the form of laughter – witty comments in the back office, or a story about one of our lawyers that I haven’t heard yet. Sometimes they’re bigger things, like the water main bursting and turning the…
We’re Obsessed with Plastic, and That Should Scare You
Venn CrawfordHow many things went into your trash can last night? How many of them were plastic? On average, Americans throw away 4.4 lbs of trash a day. That ends up being about 1600 lbs a year. Now, think about what’s in that trash: packaging for food, empty bottles, napkins, clothing…
My "husband" lied about being divorced! What do I do?
Carolyn WoodruffDear Carolyn, Hello. Can you help me? I am a 51-year-old woman who got into a wedded relationship (though celibate and platonic) with this 73-year-old man who needed my financial help with his social security. It turns out he never divorced his previous wife nor did she divorce him. Mine…
Rent, Real Estate, and Alimony
Carolyn WoodruffToday’s Ask Carolyn addresses two questions about money and real estate. Our first reader asks if his daughter’s rent can be awarded to her as part of her alimony, as she is financially unable to move back out after divorce. Our second reader wants to know if he’s required to…
I Think My Husband Is Having an Affair. What Do I Do?
Carolyn WoodruffDear Carolyn, I am pretty sure my husband is having an affair. We are not separated. I saw a text message where she texted him that she loved him. I checked his phone while he was in the shower. Should I confront him? What should I do? – Bewildered by…
Confronting Child Sexual Abuse
Carolyn WoodruffIn honor of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, today I’m posting an excerpt from Ask Carolyn 2 that addresses one survivor’s struggle with the secrecy of childhood sexual abuse and her search for closure. Dear Carolyn, I am now 32, and my sister is 35. We were both molested by our…
7 Easter Activities That Will Delight the Kids
Venn CrawfordEaster is just around the corner! Pastels, bunnies, and eggs are the order of the day this weekend, and I’ve collected some DIY Easter crafts, activities, and recipes to help you spice up your celebrations this year. And with the long weekend from Good Friday, you’ve still got plenty of…
Do People My Age Really Divorce?
Carolyn WoodruffDear Carolyn, I am sixty-nine. I have been in a fifty-year marriage. I sure would like to be out of the marriage, but I fear I am too old. I would like my retirement to be stress-free and with someone else. Do people my age really divorce? – Old, but…